Haters

World is just a stopover to the Akhirah. So as humans, we must do goods for the sake to enter the Jannah that we have been dreaming of for our whole lives. We must make this world to be a better place.

But why there are such humans sending hates in social medias or even in the reality? Although they know that they are wrong? They ruined all the intentions to spread goods and make the world to be a better place.

Well, I am not blaming for their opposite opinions towards others. Because that's make the world fun, right? IF we all have same opinions, interests, wouldn't it will become such a boring place to live in? Katakanlah, we all have interest in cars ONLY, than there would be no buildings, products, phones, clothes or anything else. Many kind of interests and opinions are making the world is way more fun actually. So the opposite opinions, are not wrong. It can't be help.

But what is wrong is THE WAY YOU ARE EXPRESSING YOUR OPINIONS.

It is very childish for who sending hates or I can say, express their "opinions" in very bad ways. Why you did that? Oh, because they are not good enough? Because they are not worth enough to do what they do? Because they did wrongs? Oho wait a second man, they have feelings! And you hurt them! Why don't you actually ADVICE them in DM and in a GOOD way instead? Telling them that "I think your... is better that way.. I hope this won't hurt your feelings.. I just want you to be better.." instead of cursing as much as you could? 

You are wasting your time and energy, and even involve many people and wasting their times and energies. And made a bunch of arguments and fights. I know you have way more better things to do but you wasted it. 

Why? Why you did that? To let go your anger? Tsk, I just want to say, it's not worth your time.

Put down your ego and think about others.

And for those who get any hates, in social medias or even in the reality, be positive. Allah is the best planner, it has been said in Quran. All you must do is to reflect yourself. There have been ALWAYS, at least a reason, why a thing happened. You must think why did Allah do that to you. Is it either the things you did in the past or the lesson you must take? It can be anything! Take the hates you get as a good thing to improve yourself. "oh maybe I think I should do.. so that's why..".

And the next step is, patience. It is really important. Instead of fight back, why not go talk properly to them? Remember the 34th hadith about prevent the bad things.

عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيْد الْخُدْرِي رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُوْلَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُوْلُ : مَنْ رَأَى مِنْكُمْ مُنْكَراً فَلْيُغَيِّرْهُ بِيَدِهِ، فَإِنْ لَمْ يَسْتَطِعْ فَبِلِسَانِهِ، فَإِنْ لَمْ يَسْتَطِعْ فَبِقَلْبِهِ وَذَلِكَ أَضْعَفُ اْلإِيْمَانِ

Dari Abu Sa’id Al Khudri radiallahuanhu berkata : Saya mendengar Rasulullah shallallahu`alaihi wa sallam  bersabda: “Siapa yang melihat kemungkaran maka rubahlah dengan tangannya, jika tidak mampu maka rubahlah dengan lisannya, jika tidak mampu maka (tolaklah) dengan hatinya dan hal tersebut adalah selemah-lemahnya iman.”

(Riwayat Muslim)

So change the haters with kindness. Advice them, properly and just two of you there, not in the public.

Or if you can't or it didn't work, just pray for their best and ignore them. And that's the worst level of Iman.

But whatever happens, you must do your best to prevent.

Instead of put oil onto fire, you must take out the fire until it totally gone, slowly, without hurting anyone.

May Allah ease everything, Assalamualaikum. Bye!

[CONFESSION]